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Doing Hard Things Gives You Freedom

It has been a while that I wrote on this blog. I came home from a Crossfit Session, yes me! The Tania Damha who is doing now Crossfit. Honestly I did not think in a billion years that I would be able to do this kind of sport. Sport was something foreign to me. It was an undesirable entity that I conveniently deleted out of my dictionary.

But lately, and that is the last three years, I love doing the hard things first. It started with me hiking an active Volcano in Italy, then running of two Marathons and now doing Crossfit. All things that were impossible even in my wildest dreams. Boy has my reality changed in the last years. We honestly create our own. Create a good one.

You will not grow if you only do the easy things. In order for us to grow, and I am talking about the kind of growing that gets you out of your miserable job, or leave a deadbeat relationship or move from living in a place that your passionately hate.

You have to do the hard things.

Hard things become our life vests.

Something amazing and life changing happens when you do the hard things. Your brain changes. The electricity in your brain starts firing up and thinks – if I just climbed this Stromboli Volcano for 6 hours and never hiked more than an hour before what else can I do that can change my life for the better? You start asking better questions.

After doing hard things your body and mind changes. You see a new you coming to fruition. Look back in your diaries or notes or delve deep in your mind and find the things you always wanted to do but were afraid of doing.

And then DO THEM.

Commit, do the hard thing and then grow! Happy July 10th the birthday of Nikola Tesla a person who did the hard things and gave us a better world.



How To Keep Independent Bookstores Alive!


I have a big passion for books so recently I wrote these 11 tips on how to keep independent bookstores alive.

  • Have famous writers volunteer at your bookstore . Make it a marketing spectacle. You will reach all the lovers of this particular writer. Invite the press and make them excited too. Most journalists adore books. Create a one of a kind experience for your readers.
  • Don’t focus all your energy on best-sellers. Most likely people will buy those books online. Have unique books and go for a nice niche. Support local writers since everything nowadays has a big emphasis on local.
  • Have weekly book swamp events. Let people come in bring their books and swap their books out. Most likely while swapping they will buy another book or two.
  • Paid membership. Have a low paid membership where members have access to all the events in your store. They get to be seated first at special events. They get something to eat and/or drink at the events while the non-membership paying crowd has to wait a bit longer.
  • Layout. It has to be visually stunning. People are very nostalgic for the good old days. Think layout like “The Last Bookstore in LA” and “Bart’s Bookstore” in Ojai.
  • Have a well-know writer as your investor. Again, for marketing purposes this will strike gold. Think 18th street coffeehouse in Santa Monica with Bob Dylan as an investor (rumored).
  • Read and rent. People can read a whole book for a certain price tag without having to buy it. Most people who love books still love to hold them in their hands. You can charge a low price of let’s say $ 2.50. They are allowed to read for let’s say 4 hours maximum. Most will finish a book by then if they are fast readers.
  • Have passionate employees. People who LOVE and think about books all the time. Let them write hand-written notes for certain books with a personal recommendation. Think Amoeba with their music store in Hollywood.
  • Give a random book for free. You might get some from publishers for free if you approach them. Give a book free to every x person walking into the store. Let’s say every 100th person that comes in per day. This will create tremendous mouth to mouth advertising. The biggest and most effective tool in life is still giving to others.
  • Have a single night, a couple night, a day with parents with children, a LGBT night etc. You do the most powerful thing here and that is creating a community. People might even fall in love while coming to your bookstore. Weddings in your future bookstore? Will not add this as a separate suggestion here 🙂
  • Food/Drinks. The right food is so extremely important. You can have a dish or appetizer that goes with the featured writer/book from a certain country. The cafe could serve appetizers from that specific country. People love international foods more and more. Great food and great books are a killer combo.